Good morning WhiteBeard, so glad you posted on the time for surgery. yes, you will be up before the chickens and the crows Monday morning. I see a friend is taking you Monday. By any chance will your daughter get to come and stay with you at the house while you recoup? Better to have her when you are home and need her rather than while in the hospital.
Wow, what a jerk the ex to be, lawyer is. Oh man, he is milking her bank acct, like an instant ATM machine. This sure gave her something to chew on for awhile, here she thought it was you and it was her very own lawyer padding his bill. So, I am assuming once an offer is made and its declined, then all offers are off the table right? This may get settled sooner than you think once she has had time to think about it and realizes what her own lawyer is doing to her. Guys like him give them all a bad rap.
I sure wish we had a way to contact you and know the surgery went ok, rather than having to wait till you are able to email us. Sounds like you got a good deal on the laptop too. I bought one at Radio Shack on sale and my husbad loves it. He uses it and I use my old PC.
I don't know but things areally are sounding like they pick up around your place, people interested in the house, getting your neck fixed, ex to be finding out her lawyers is jacking with her. It may all fit into place real soon.
We will be thinking of you. Hugs.
So sorry to hear about the Lawyer dilemma. Sad but Lawyers are either really good or bank robbers, no in between in my experience anyway.
Don't think about anything but getting to the Hospital and having your neck fixed!! Everything else can wait!
Dear White Beard,
Good morning *soft huggs* I hope you have a relaxing day today. I simply cannot imagine how you go through so much! Yet remain so strong in the face of it all.
I am sorry you are still struggling with delays from the lawyer. I think I would be very upsett too. It is very obvious her lawyer is padding his pockets. Not just at her expense, but at this point, your expense too. Physically, emotionally, socially and financially. They are really getting out of hand, and it is obvious they have no care for your needs what so ever. If they delay again in December, is there any way you can appeal to the judge that the "stalling tactics" have gotten out of hand? I was once tied up in court, after leaving my X. He had a large amount of wealth at his disposal to ensure I was tied up in court for many years. After 5yrs, the judge forced the decision, and my X and his lawyer lost their rights. LIterally. Apparently, lawyers can get into trouble with a "bar association" of some kind. I do not know how long you have been fighting this fight with your wife, but perhaps if they continue to stall the courts, your lawyer could bring it to the judges attention.
I know you have SO MUCH!! Going on, but I do hope you get a chance to relax this weekend. I hope your surgery is a sucess!!!!!!! I remember you mentioned they were concerned over how they were going to "go in" the particular area. I know they must be very skilled surgeons but you will be in our hearts and prayers. *soft huggs!!!*