Hey Pete, sorry you are feeling so rough. That usually happens when overdo overdoes lol. Maybe things will settle down after you are at home for awhile. Take some days and try to chill out.
Pete you have spoken here before about the fellow living in your other house. If you feel that this guy is not grateful for you allowing him to live in your house why not remove him. This seems to be stuck in your crawl. Does this fellow have any idea you feel this way, I am sure if he did, he would probably move out of there. If he is not physically able to work on your home, then perhaps getting him out and hiring someone to come in and do the work would be the way to go, at least the work would get done. This is just extra baggage that seems to keep irritating you.
Take care of yourself and slow down some.