Jimmy, sorry to hear about all of your pain issues. I too have stenosis from a bulging disc and arthritis in my spine and yes it bites big time. I noticed that you are on some heavy doses of narcotic pain meds but don't see anything mentioned about meds for nerve pain. Have you tried something like Neurontin (gabapentin is the generic)? I use this 600mg 2xday and it does help with the spasms in my cervical area. It doesn't help with any other areas so those areas must not be nerve related problems. Maybe this could be something you could talk to your doc about. Some people use Cymbalta (an anti-depressant) also for pain. Hope with your doctors help you can find something to help until you can get things straightened out.
Good Luck and let us know how it goes with the surgeon.