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Chartreux
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   Posted 7/14/2010 7:52 AM (GMT -7)   
Okay so let's hope that Dani is back doing this soon...or Chutz...
Healing Hugz for both of you...

Today is a quest ..
It;ll be hard, On a bad pain day, something gets you angry, How Long does it take to cool back down...
Does it take 20 minutes, a 1/2 hour, a hour , a few hours or all day...

Okay so for me on a bad day like last night my brother made me mad, cause I can't make it to
Chicago for his newborn baby naming cermony (they are jewish) so it took me a couple of hours to cool down...

part of the reason is by car it's over 1,000 mile trip and I would need someone to watch my kitties,
kitties don't travel as well as dogs.
So how long does it take for ya to cool down????
(Normally for me a few minutes to a few hours to cool down...)
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Post Edited (Chartreux) : 7/14/2010 9:13:36 AM (GMT-6)


antbuggey
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   Posted 7/14/2010 8:27 AM (GMT -7)   
Unfortunately on a bad day......it seems to take me FOREVER to cool down! And the longer it takes, the more I hurt! The hard part for me is I take things way to personal.....WAY to personal, even on a good day! I am working on trying not to personalize everything because this has always been a problem for me!

Mrs. Dani
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   Posted 7/14/2010 8:50 AM (GMT -7)   
thanks for your help chart. I havnt been feeling very well atall. But I dont usually post the koffee klatch until 8 or 9 am my time, GMT. If you want I can try to post it later tonight. But, gosh, I sure do appreciate your help an awful lot. Also, your really good at this!
 
 
Today is a quest ..
It;ll be hard, On a bad pain day, something gets you angry, How Long does it take to cool back down...
Does it take 20 minutes, a 1/2 hour, a hour , a few hours or all day...

 

    I hate to even say it out loud... usually about 3 or 5 minutes. The problem is that I can understand someone elses point of view and sympathize with how they feel. I will tell them as much as well. I will repeat what I have been told, in my own words so they know that I am listening. That I do, indeed, understand how they feel. But, it doesnt mean for one moment I will allow someone to emotionally black-mail, belittle, or redicule me either. Just because I sympathize doesnt means I will be part of someone elses anrgy little whirl wind. Besides, when people are angry they say things they really regret. After I tell them I understand, I usually remove or excuse myself. 

    The worst people are the ones going out of their way to find conflict. They will do anything, and I mean anything to lure you into their emotional co-dependancy *shiver* (that would be the 5 mins to cool down.) Those types of people give me the heebie-jeebies. I dont say a word in those instances, just steer clear and avoid. Nothing I say or do with those types of people will help.


*hugg*
  dani

 
TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
 
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