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momtofourangels
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   Posted 7/17/2010 11:11 PM (GMT -7)   
I thought I would put a post up just for you so you would see it.
 
I'm so sorry about your neice and your grandmother passing away.  Death is very hard to handle and gets very overwhelming especially when you haven't  dealth with it before.  I hope  you feel better.  Please know that i'm here for you. (((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
 
love and hugs
Loretta
Dx: osteoarthritis, bursitis in left hip,  ddd, spinal stenosis, bone spurs, hypothyroidism, typeII diabetes, asthma, allergies, high blood pressure, polycystic ovary syndrome, PTSD, depression, anxiety


Hello~Kitty
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   Posted 7/18/2010 7:15 PM (GMT -7)   
Thank you for the support.

My grandmother's passing was expected, she's been in hospice for 2 years, several times saying she wasnt gonna make it through the night. But finally she said she was tierd of the pain and needed to move on. SO in a way it's good to know she isnt suffering anymore, but of course it's sad to lose anyone. Everyone that has passed before happened when I was young, where I didn't know much about death.

Then having a baby pass with SIDS was just horrible, I just can't accept that babies should die, feels like a piece of me is missing now. They where gonna keep doing CPR for as long as the mother wants, but she called it off after one and half hours, I didn't want them to, if it was my kid, they would still being doing it, but I guess it was the right thing to do....it was just so unexpected, and why does a healthy baby just stop breathing....We just got the tombstone in last weeks, it's really beautiful.

Thanks again, my doctor just raised my Cymbatla up, hoping to help the anxiety and depression. then he switched my Suboxone to Subutex cause they come in generics and is WAY cheaper, so that takes alot of stress away. Anything to help witht he stress is a little bit helpful. But one good thing that's come out of this, is it makes me wanna spend way more time with my kids, espeically after knowing that they can disappear in a blink of an eye, and I don't think anyone realizes this til it's happened to them.

I've been reading on a forum for people who have lost a loved one to SIDS, but it seems to be just for parents, so I havent joined yet, I dont know what they'll think, but I have so many questions to ask....

Thanks again-
kitty

Carmen~*~*~Chronic Pain Moderator

DX-Chronic Pain due to two freak car accidents, Pancreatic Divisum, Fibromyalgia, Asthma, Depression w/anxiety, Migraines, and Kids!!!

Meds- buprenorphene (Subutex) for chronic pain, Cymbalta, prilosec, Zyrtec, ProAir inhaler, and the best medication is my puppy, kitty, and 5 guinea pigs!!!

 


skeye
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   Posted 7/18/2010 8:43 PM (GMT -7)   
Kitty,

I too am so sorry for your loss. Losing someone at any age is tough to deal with. My thoughts are with you & your family during this time of grief and mourning. I hope that you are able to find answers to your questions & with that find peace.

hugs,
Skeye

momtofourangels
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   Posted 7/18/2010 10:16 PM (GMT -7)   
Your welcome Kitty.  I know it doesn't make sense for a baby to die like that.  I really do understand the pain.  I lost our four babies.  three to miscarriage and our daughter at 20 weeks.  It's pain like no other to lose a child.  I hope you can get your questions answered.  Have you tried looking SIDS up on the medical sites on the web?  Maybe that would help.  Just trying to help.
 
love and hugs
Loretta
Dx: osteoarthritis, bursitis in left hip,  ddd, spinal stenosis, bone spurs, hypothyroidism, typeII diabetes, asthma, allergies, high blood pressure, polycystic ovary syndrome, PTSD, depression, anxiety

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