This is a very good topic. I have often thought this same thing myself.
I would like one who doesn't give you the ole 'eye roll' when you tell him you were dx'd with fibromyalgia years ago.
One that bothers to look up drug interactions/ withdrawal symptoms before prescribing a mixture of meds that almost kill you when you try to get off.
I hate it when they don't sit down, and look at your chart with his/her back to you facing the window...is he looking for his Corvette in the parking lot??
I would like one that doesn't lean back in his chair with his feet on the desk, chewing on the end of a pen browsing through a PDR. Yikes!
One that doesn't talk to me about weight issues when his neck flab is oozing over the collar of his shirt.
And...never call me ma'am!
Yes...I have been to a lot of doctors and finally have a good one!