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Shelter
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Date Joined Feb 2007
Total Posts : 155
   Posted 11/23/2007 5:02 AM (GMT -7)   
im now  off work  longer.....
till dec 12  at least
there are things going on even  at home
now wth my son (sucidal).. which adds to my  own  pain & trying to cope
 
i ahve applied for  EI insurnace and now fileing workmans comp claim
i could sue   some support
im overwlemed
head hurts
i react to pain meds for my  back....
and  
 
i jsut ned to talk
 
They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their Strength, they shall mount up on wings as eagles, they shall run & not grow weary, they shall walk & not faint..."  Ish   40 v. 31
 
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Sjrogrens Syndrome, Asthema, Chronic Fatigue, Chronic Pain, Head aches, Migraines, Gastro Intestinal ProblesmFibro Myalgia ,Kidney Stones Esophegial Spasms,( L4 & L5 Vertebrae Misaligned,  Spinal Stenosis and Degenerative Disc Disease , Bulging Disc, anterolisthesis L4 L5 , caused by osteoarthristis ,  slipped Disc,  bone spurs, causing pinching or pressure  on spinal chord...), ~
 
 
Meds:*** NEW  Endocet,(oxycodone HCL) , Lorazepam   1 mg Cyclobenziprine, Amitripline, Celebrex 200 mg , and Robaxacet as needed Tynelo Arthritus as needed ,  vitamins  B complex, Calcium & Magnisium,  extra  Vitamin D ,  Rhodiola RX (GNC brand) ,Garlic,  Acidophilous, 
 

 


Sherrine
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Date Joined Apr 2005
Total Posts : 17101
   Posted 11/23/2007 11:14 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi, Shelter! I'm so sorry you are having so many problems right now. It really comes in "bunches, doesn't it? You need to try to relax a little, and I know that's difficult if you are dealing with a family member who is suicidal! I've been there and done that! It is an extremely stressful time and the stress will increase your pain. Stress is fear and fear has never solved a single problem. I really try not to allow fear, especially in the guise of stress and anxiety, to take over and it has really helped me. That's why I have the scripture in my signature.

Does your son live with you or near to you? The family member I was trying to help lived a couple of hundred of miles away from me. I sent them "care packages" every couple of weeks with favorite snacks that supplied nutrition in them. (Things with peanut butter, nuts, et.) This person was not eating but I knew would eat the snacks. I also wrote a letter every day with the positive things that were happening with the people he knew and cared about. He knew I really cared and loved him, too. That's really important! I also had to overlook certain things that were said and actions that were taken by this person because I knew they really weren't in their "right mind" at the time. And, one of the most important things I did was pray, without ceasing, for him. This person started getting a little better and I wasn't concerned about the suicide aspect then. I was then able to convince him to seek professional help. He did and responded beautifully!

We are here for you, Shelter, and will help any way we can. You do have to remember that you have really no control over other people and what they do. You only need to be there for them and let them know you love them. You really cant' do more than that. Being stressed out will only hurt you and it won't help your son at all. Try to relax and I'll pray that all works out well for you too.!

Sherrine
Forum Moderator/ Fibromyalgia
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Howlyncat
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Date Joined Jan 2005
Total Posts : 24909
   Posted 11/24/2007 3:40 PM (GMT -7)   
I too am so sorry that all this is coming down on you
Sherrine has given some great input and I do hope you will take it to heart and try to let self not be drawn into more anxiety,pain and suffering

Keeping you in thoughts and prayers as well as your son.........

God Bless

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Shelter
Regular Member


Date Joined Feb 2007
Total Posts : 155
   Posted 11/26/2007 11:18 PM (GMT -7)   
thanks so much for staning with me in prayer

this has been a storm.... which i feel peace being spoken too

as for back pain
-- had a few days pain free
then yesterday from out of now where...
hip siatic pain again
limping
ice packs
thinking.. when will this ever stop
I know GOD is in CONTROL. been lsitneing to a song by that title....
and I know it will all work together for good
my son is respsonding well to new meds thus far...
we take one day at a time

I know all si welll- when I bake cookies
its my " thermostat to quality of life,"
my Depressometer...

lol
I learned many years ago that under stess........ I DONT bake
under stress.......... i loose interest in cooking and cleaning...


Onward !!!!!!!!!!
Ish 55
Blessings and thanks
They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their Strength, they shall mount up on wings as eagles, they shall run & not grow weary, they shall walk & not faint..."  Ish   40 v. 31
 
~
Sjrogrens Syndrome, Asthema, Chronic Fatigue, Chronic Pain, Head aches, Migraines, Gastro Intestinal ProblesmFibro Myalgia ,Kidney Stones Esophegial Spasms,( L4 & L5 Vertebrae Misaligned,  Spinal Stenosis and Degenerative Disc Disease , Bulging Disc, anterolisthesis L4 L5 , caused by osteoarthristis ,  slipped Disc,  bone spurs, causing pinching or pressure  on spinal chord...), ~
 
 
Meds:*** NEW  Endocet,(oxycodone HCL) , Lorazepam   1 mg Cyclobenziprine, Amitripline, Celebrex 200 mg , and Robaxacet as needed Tynelo Arthritus as needed ,  vitamins  B complex, Calcium & Magnisium,  extra  Vitamin D ,  Rhodiola RX (GNC brand) ,Garlic,  Acidophilous, 
 

 

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