Dreaded stress at work causing CD to go crazy!!!
I recently started a new job in September 07 and was so excited. Some of you might remember me posting her about how I was interviewing in a flare.
Well, my boss is awful and yells at me a lot and I just kept making mistakes because I was so nervous. Now she tells me that this is not the right job for me and is telling me I need to find a job elsewhere.
I have been trying really hard but I have been sick everyday because of this job and now I am on the hunt for a new job!
I am so upset that i am flaring so bad no with bloody D and cramping and all the signs of a flare getting going.
Also she has given me 4-6 weeks to find a new position which is nice. However, they are going to recruit for my position and since I work in recruiting I get to schedule the interviews and see the person that might replace me. (I will have to try not to scream at the person " run out of here this place sucks!"
I am having such a hard time working while I can’t sleep and am basically fired even though I did a great job in some areas while others I need to improve.
There were so many lunches I skipped and ate really fast at my desk I came in to work early and worked so hard.
Everyone else likes me and thinks I am doing great…. I have never had this happen before.
Thanks for the vent…. Off to potty again L
Diagnosed w/ Crohn’s Disease March 2007 On 150mg Azathioprine (generic Imuran), Pentasa, & Entocort (take zofran for nausea now)
Diagnosed w/ Fibromyalgia May 2007 also on Soma
Also have Arthritis, and feel like I am falling apart sometimes...
Post Edited (RedAdmin) : 1/17/2008 12:32:28 PM (GMT-7)
Karen, the next time your boss starts ragging on you inappropriately just mention the words "hostile environment".............. I am sorry you were cursed with a boss that is insensitive and not a people person.
Believe in yourself, you are a good person and don't let anyone else tell you different. You keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will go far. Give yourself a big hug and just believe.
Post Edited (Skjura) : 1/17/2008 5:44:57 PM (GMT-7)
Karen I am so sorry you are having to go thru all these problems at work. I think Ingrid gave you some great advice. You cannot let someone who is a bully like that get away with it. Its obvious that you are well liked with your coworkers. I once had a boss like that. Anyone who was well liked because of the good work they did or just because they were a good and happy person to be around they got nothing but a hateful attack. People like that are just bullies in my eyes and very power hungry. Since that time it has taught me that no one will ever treat me like that again. I don't know if my age has made me stronger or more stubborn but it won't happen to me again. Definetly share with your co-workers and Kitt's thought of hostile work enviroment is definetly true also. This lady will get whats coming to her. Because what goes around, comes around. And karma will have its day. Good luck on your job search. I will keep you in my prayers.
Post Edited (AmandaHoles01) : 1/19/2008 4:51:50 PM (GMT-7)
Post Edited (njmom) : 1/18/2008 9:15:32 AM (GMT-7)
I have no family or friends around me other than my husband and children so I very greatly appreciate this group and i'm hoping to become a regular. You are all great people! (I also need to add my father in law does live fairly close as well..I don't want to leave him out.)
Hello Karen,How are you today? Hope you drew a lot of strength from this thread. Obviously you are cared about deeply here and just knowing how much you are respected should make you feel a wee bit better.
Many hugs for you.Kitt