I too was diagnosed after my daughters were born. I'm the only one in the family who has CD. I love my children and of course I wish they will never be sick neither from CD nor from any other disease in the world!!!!! At the beggining when I was diagnosed I felt sooo guilty about the possibility that my children will have CD in the future. Now, after so many years, I finally made peace with myself.
Children are a blessing, unfortunately Crohns is not the only disease they could get, so I pray everyday for them to be healthy and happy.
I know for me having children was the best decision I ever made in my life, because they make my life so much better!