Thank you all for your responses and GREAT advice. I guess you will always have someone not "get it". I just wish it wasn't family and friends.
I had the spoon theory hung up at work. When someone gave me the... Why are you being lazy look... I made them read it. I love that story, it even helped me put this DD in perspective.
I think my family understands the actual Crohn's part of being sick but it's feeling ok Crohn's wise and getting a cold or other infection and feeling exhausted... not tired... but EXHAUSTED!
I love this site! It's always lets me know I'm not alone! You guys are GREAT!