I hope your daughter gets relief soon. My daughter was 19 when she went into the hospital for unknown stomach pain and high fever. After her second admission they found a massive infection where her appendix used to be. She had a resection and actually did much better for quite a while. Now she is 21 and dealing with a peri anal abscess that won't heal.
My daughter cried all the time just wanting to be "normal". At 21 she is dealing with things much better now, but she doesnt have the kind of pain your daughter has. However, if the dr. even mentions hospital, she starts to cry. She will probably have another drain put in next week because that abscess isn't getting better.
We take one day at a time.