I'm praying your surgery is wildly successful!! And you recover at lightning speed!
Try to focus on getting ready for the hospital stay and when you come home -- go to the library and get movies and books, etc. -- and the time will go faster. And it will help you feel more in control of things! I am glad you have family. I am sure you are there for them 100% -- whatever they need. Now that it is your turn, let them be there for you!
Take care and let us know how it goes!