Hi crohn’s pt mum,
I also have a perianal abscess and I understand the difficulty with wipes etc especially when out and about.
I live in Australia and I have found these wonderful wipes at my local chemist – they’re called ‘rectogesic cleansing wipes’ – rectogesic is also the name of a cream used to treat anal fissures. The wipes are alcohol free, thicker and softer than any baby wipe I’ve ever tried and so soothing for the abscess area (believe me, I know!!). They come in packs of 25 and there is nothing I would recommend more highly for your daughter’s situation – they are a great alternative to toilet paper.
I hope it brings her some relief. I’ve just recently discovered these and am so grateful they exist – even the most expensive brand of baby wipes cause me pain.
Here is a link to the Australian website hopefully you can find it where you live also: