Thanks for the support earlier folks. I made the two duck cakes and all the food and all the decorations, packed the car Sunday morning and made the 1.5 hour drive without any CD accidents. And the duck cakes made it with no disasters either! My car was "baby shower-some assembly required".
When i got to my sisters house I had to make a bathroom trip about every 20 minutes, but she has colitis and totally understands. The only worry I had was sharing one bathroom with 20 ladies including a pregnant girl.
Dx'd '90 (emergency rupture), symptoms ignored long before that, '03 fistulas and bad flagyl reactions, B12 weekly, Pentasa [until I surrender to the bigger meds]
I'm riding on the escalator of life....