Hi Andorable, I just read your story and I just wanted to send you a HUUUUUUGE hug - just remember that him doing this to you has nothing to do with your operation and EVERYTHING to do with the person that he is - a major jerk by the sounds of it.
I must admit I was tickled pink to hear that the ‘other woman’ has no intention of pursuing a relationship with him.
This is such bad timing for you but as the other say – at least you found out about his character now and not in ten years time! Glad to hear you’re getting stronger every day….. That’s the way.
Let us know how you are going; we are all here for you!
Lots of love