I know it must be hard...but better safe then sorry...you are gonna have to try to find some time to get your tests and doctor visits in, or your just gonna end up in the ER...
Robin - I'm a newbie to this too (my child was just diagnosed Crohn's in March), but I would suggest you get started on a good multivitamin (Forvia is what we use), omega fatty acids (i.e. fish oil capsules), and a probiotic (VSL#3 is the best one) at a minimum. If you do have Crohn's, it will likely sap your nutrition levels and leave your body malnourished and possibly anemic. (Are you very pale?) You can end up being very very sick and require hospitalization if this is really Crohn's or colitis. Please be careful...maybe this bride could find another florist so you can get healthy? By the way, it only took about 2 days to get my daughter diagnosed... one day to prep, one day for colonscopy. Hope that helps.