could you call your GYN doc? I think the larger issue is your baby, seems like you your dehydration issues and other CD issues in check. If your GYN/OB doens't think you need to go the ER, then maybe not. My inclination is that your GI doc is covering himself legally, as he should. Your situation is complicated. I feel for you, having three sons myself although my CD didn't flare until years after their birth. Sounds like this is uncomfortable, but the baby seems like he/she is being well take care of! Mama knows best .. trust your instict and if you question it ... call your OB/GYN or the Help Nurse.
44-single mom diagnosed with Crohn's 2004 via pill camera 6MP kicked into remission (along with modified diet) so went off in 2006.
2009/2010 acute flare and hospitalization - now on Imuran. Currently taking 55 mg prednisone.
Current problem - protruding thrombosed hemorrhoids (external as well as internal).
Fibromyaglia; migraines; herniated disks C5,6 and arthritis in neck; asthma; scolisis in back/arthritis.