My heart also goes out to you both. Sometimes dealing this this disease is just unbearable I know. I'm also fearful of Remicade, because of the cancer risk. I know they say it's small, but we already have Lymphome in our family. So I feel I would have an even increased risk!
I sure hope he's feeling better soon!
Diagnosed with mild Crohn's Disease 2/06 after sever GI bleed. Has been suffering since 1998. History of rectal fistula and gallbladder removal. Currently taking Asacol and Questran.