If he really was the "one" he wouldn't have bailed. I'm only 14 and I have a bf who doesn't know, I will tell him when it's the "right" time. Some just don't understand what your going through. I am worried that when I do tell him that he might not like me or something but then he wouldn't be the nice guy I thought he was. Try getting to know them first and then telling them.........I don't know. Try doing what feels right.
Hello, everyone. I am writing to explain my point on Cystic Fibrosis relantionships. Ok , let me first start by saying I am a 20 year old female and I have been with my fiance' now for 4 years and are recently planning our wedding for this year. We have been through so many struggles I can't even count, when we first met I lost my brother who was 26 to Cystic Fibrosis, it was the hardest thing for me. Then three years later I lost my mother and then again I thought the hardest thing I had went through. But that yet wasn't the hardest, we found news that I had been carring a child and I was 3 months when my mom passed away, but right after the funeral about three weeks we lost the baby. And it was the hardest of things to lose. It was something that was more about myself than anything, cause all I could think about was the fact that this man who loves me so much is seeing me struggle with this illiness for 3 years and the hardest of it all was losing our baby the Cystic Fibrosis was making it hard for us to conceive a child. But to myself I seen alot more low times then high ones and even today I sit and think how did I make it through this. Well the answer to my question was the love of my life, I couldn't of done it without him, he was the reason why I got up in the morning and the reason why today I just got to keep going. When we first met I did keep it from him , I was scared of what he had to say, scared that he would turn away. But he didn't and he is still here today. If you can't be honest with the person God created then he or she isn't worth trying for. A good person would say it's ok , we'll try again and this time we'll just try harder. I always think I am unique more like a guy than a lady at times. I always try to make jokes about my CF, I learn to live with it, if my friends or guys don't like me then push them away, why give up your time to make someone like you or love you, to me it's just not worth the aggrevation, right? If he can't see you for who you are then leave him , the struggles with CF are alot more harder to cope with then watching a guy or gal walk out the door. Email me if you have any questions, I wanted to explain my side Jane Doe, leave him alone if he can't except you or if your disease is to complicating for him. Thankx ya'll
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