I am not trying to be mean or anything, but I was wondering if....maybe...one of those 'friends' were you? I know that you are young and I am also, I am 16. It seems the way people ask for help , they always have a 'friend' who has a problem, but it turns out to be them. I was just wondering if maybe one of them were you. It is ok if it is. I was just wondering. We can only help you so much. But, as for your question, both situations are bad. And both girls need help. If you know about what they are doing, you should speak up. If they cant get help, then you should tell an adult who can help them. I understand the situations of what the girls are going through. I have been there before. Just a few months ago. And to be honest, I really wished I had a friend who would have spoken up and gotten me help. It would have saved me a lot of pain and suffering.
I understand completely. If you ever need to talk, I am here for you. I think my email and messanger are all of my profile if you need them, if not, let me know on here. I would be very happy to talk to you about anything if you need it. I can relate alot so you dont have to be scared about discussing anything. I am very open and understanding, and I am not here to judge anyone. I just wanted you to know that. Take care.
I dont think you can really say that one story is more devastating for one individual. Both stories are devastating and it depends on the persons personality etc... as to how it affects them. Some people will cope better than others in the same situation. My heart goes out to both the individuals concerned.