Welcome to Healing Well and we are very happy you found us. 16 is a tough age, some days you feel like a kid and other days an adult. You have lots going on in school and your looking ahead to what you may choose as a career.
It seems to me that girls have an even tougher time then the guys as everything is changing so fast for you. Making friends is difficult. One day they like you the next day they don't, it is a time when you are still learning how to deal with your feelings toward your parents, friends and teachers.
I know how you feel, your sitting there thinking you are a loser and who would want to be your friend? Guess what, there are lots of people out there that will be your friend and enjoy getting to know you. Just reach out and let us try to help you.
I would like to see you sit down with your parents or Mom and tell them how you feel right now. I agree a bit of counseling would be a wise choice for you. It will teach you skills on how to choose friends and how to be a good friend. First however, you have to learn to love you. You are a good person and very deserving of happiness so lets get you started on the journey of losing this depression that is hanging over you.
I think if you would, writing here what is going on would be helpful for you. We do not judge but we do support.
Gentle Hugs to you