So last night i told her that i wanted to break all contact with her for a while and after that if we both feel like it we could try the friends thing she was already a bit tipsy by the time she picked me up for dinner started drinking the minute we got to the place i knew this was going to go bad but i stayed and tried to talk but she got more and more irrational and when she started making treats i got up and left. I was walking home when she caught up with the car she apologized said i should get in she would drop me at home so i did next minute she started speeding when i asked her what she was doing she said that she was going to crash the car and kill us both i tried to reason she just went crazy the car was speeding out of control and when she slowed down for a stop i pulled up the handbrake the car skidded she tried to wrestle loose the hand brake but the car came to a stop and i jumped out she grabbed me but i pulled free.
Once more she caught up to me driving next to me asking if i would get back in apologized she was driving into on coming traffic so i said i would drive she agreed thought i would take her home but she refused to tell me where she stayed asked if we could talk so i stoled we talked and i just told her the same that she needs to move on with her life and that it cant be next thing she pulled out a bottle of pills and started swallowing so i got out and started walking again.
once more she came speeding after me demanding i get in threatening to drive into traffic i knew it was dumb but i got in besides it was about 20 miles to my place along walk at 11pm at night she calmed down and started to drive me home but about 2miles from home i said something that triggered her and she started speeding again a car drove in front of us and she had to break i jumped out and ran away.... Started walking home but when i got there she was standing outside with her car so i hid behind a bush hoped she would get tired and leave i didn't have the strength to argue with a drunk irrational women. about and hour later she was still there left like a 100 messages on my mobile that she was not leaving so i phoned the ppl i stay with told them the story they said i should just come in they would help if she was any trouble... she was trouble so they phoned the police and they came she refused so they took her away...... I am hoping she is going to go away but some how i don't think so ...Life just keeps trwoing me bricks i am figthing just sometimes i dont know if its worth it......
I think you can see the answer. You definately have to stay away from her. Can you get a restraining order put on her? She could have gotten you both killed last night. I know that you have every right to go where you want to go, but if I were you I would stay away from places that you think she might be at. She could do you some severe harm. I know how hard that you have worked to get well, and this invironment isn't good for you. Please think about it Dark.
Luv and hugs,
Hello Dark, This is Kitt. My opinion for the day is to cease and desist any contact with this woman. She has serious problems and you cannot fix them. She is irrational and dangerous. You may need to get a restraining order against her. Just my 2 cents for what it is worth. :)
I am sorry she moved to where you are but for your sake my friend, keep posting here and let us help you through this. You have to take care of you first. You have come so far and you have far to go. There is much good in your future so please do not try to save this person, save you.Gentle HugsKitt
Hello Dark,We are hear for you and please talk to us, don't wall yourself off and get all mixed up in taking responsibility for another's behavior. Please remember right now you are fighting for your own life and you need to put you first.
You must be good to you and not feel guilt because this lady has shown up where you are. She got there so she must take care of herself. Bless you my friendKitt
I too an concerned about you. Kitt is right, you cannot accept responsibility for another persons actions. Please concentrate on getting yourself back on track. This should be your main concern at the moment. If you dont get yourself back on track, you cannot help anyone else. Please check in with us!
Its good to hear from you again. I think Shy has hit the nail on the head really. You have achieved so much in the short time I have known you... you should be proud of that. Please dont let the person who is saying all these nasty things about you get control. You deserve better than that. I believe you can do it.
Dark, my friend, I have had faith in you form the beginning as you were willing to reach out to us here. I am so glad you are getting to know yourself better. Keep your faith in your God and keep posting as we are here.
I understand how hard that this all is. But you are doing the right thing. You will learn and grow as you go. And you are right, one step at a time. But you will get there my friend.
Like Kitt says, keep your faith in your God and we ARE here for you.
I hope that your days come easier with time.