I know what you are saying about meeting before the parents meet persay, but in this day and age of diseases and committment retentive people, you have to decide whether or not a the person in your life is worth "having" you. I will tell you that I have experienced guys who are definately looking for sex, they are everywhere. Promiscuity has a higher standard for me now, it took losing the man I loved because of not practicing what I preach. Now that I am single, I will insist and stand by the decision to not have sex with anyone until and if I feel like I did about W.
Besides with him, there is no comparison so why even give myself when I know it is just sex?
How did we get on this subject, dont take this as inappropriate but understand with depression and personality disorders you must make a comittment to yourself and your body that YOU are worth more than "satisfaction" That is my input on this only because I know for a fact that even with depression YOU and only YOU can appropriate decisions when it comes to the things in your life that believe it or not depression has a strong hold on.