Post Edited By Moderator (getting by) : 3/10/2008 2:31:06 PM (GMT-6)
I agree with Karen, I think it was just someone having fun at your expense. I think its really sad that people do these kinds of things and it makes me so mad!
Please dont think that this is a reflection on you. It could have been anyone and if you hadnt been there at the right time, they would have got someone else. Just be grateful that this all ended relatively painlessly... it could have been much worse.
Post Edited (confusedgirl22) : 3/11/2008 9:38:13 AM (GMT-6)
I think your low SE is probably one of the main reasons why you blame yourself. I dont think your SE is a factor in why you fall for these people though. 90% of single people would be very flattered to receive compliments from strangers and I think its that which builds on a false idea.
I would tell your therapist what has happened and tell him that you think your SE is a problem. He should be able to give you exercises to help boost your SE.
Post Edited (ShynSassy) : 3/12/2008 6:12:01 AM (GMT-6)