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99angel*z
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   Posted 3/13/2008 5:38 AM (GMT -7)   
i have this realli long complicated storey. it started out great... i got a new job it was perfect i thought mayb my life was heading sum where good. my first day at my job started and 30mins b4 its was about to start my mum calls and tells me she cant take me so im callin around tryin to get help maybe sum1 could take me as it was a walk distance.
after ages i finannly get a ride and its all ok.... maybe not so bad... my mum picked me up after i was done... but seemed to go on bout how im selfish and stuff lyk that just becoz i was upset that she couldnt take me... i mean maybe a bit more notice next tym.... we had an argument is just kept goin on n on... as i got home i decided i needed a break away from her.... so i went to my frends house n he comforted me 4 a while which was good bcoz i was feelin better.... i got home n just went to my room... but wen dad got home he was angry at me for makin my mum upset by some of the things i sed... i think she was over reacting... becoz my dad hit me several tyms (which he has neva done b4) i was so scared i called the cops... who didnt actually help they called me a liar n and stuff lyk that even though i was lyin...
i hadnt spoken to my parents very much or at all.. last week n then todai my mum started tlkn bout it n i told her to let it got i didnt wanna hear bout it... she drove off sum where and left me at home with my older sister who was teasing me and stuff... n then my sister co=ame and asked to borrow my work clothes n i told her i needed them but she wouldnt listen and started hittin me... so i let her hit me n then i couldnt take it anymore.. so i trhew her to the ground n sat on her n told her to calm down n she wouldnt so i hit her n then got up n locked my self in a room till she calmed down n then i left the house....
when i got home my mum yelled at me n told me she wanted me to leave... i was so upset it lyk my family dont even want me any more.... so here i am all cried out and my onli hope is maybe my frends.... so i call my frend who begins to tell me he has dropped out of school.... and that he will come get me from work wen i finish... but wen i finished my work crap he wasnt there n i walked all teh way home crying.... and i feel so helpless no where to go.. no 1 to tlk to n i hav just broken down cryin.
its lyk i have no1 sad

MMMNAVY
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   Posted 3/13/2008 6:17 AM (GMT -7)   
I am so sorry this is happening. Do you have any adult that you can trust? Like a teacher, minister, counselor etc. that you can tell what is going on? Please do not take this as offensive, but do you have bruises? Because sometimes the police need proof of what is going on... This really is a situation for them. Please take pictures of the injuries you have, and keep telling until someone believes you.

I am assuming you are in the UK? (you said mum) We do need to know what country you are in so we could get you some resources...
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Post Edited (MMMNAVY) : 3/13/2008 7:34:56 AM (GMT-6)


djdaz_1985
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   Posted 3/13/2008 10:41 AM (GMT -7)   

Like Navy, I have made the assumption that you are in the UK. If you dont mind me asking, how old are you? I am from the UK and know of many resources that you can use to help. I am really sorry that this is happening and as Navy has said, taking photos of your injuries is always a good idea. If you want to email me, please feel free but dont neglect the opportunity to talk on the forums as well.

Please keep talking to us

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ivy6
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   Posted 3/13/2008 4:15 PM (GMT -7)   
... And I'm in Australia so might be able to help if you're from Aus.

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99angel*z
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   Posted 3/13/2008 5:10 PM (GMT -7)   
Actually im from australia.
im 17 yrs old and have just started yr 12 at high school.
when the police came around i actually had a cut on my face which was bleedin and i had bloood all over my hands
So even then the didnt help even though the evidence was right in their faces... the police officer actually told me not to lie about wat had happened... but the thing is i wouldnt have called the police if i didnt think there was a need to

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   Posted 3/13/2008 6:23 PM (GMT -7)   
Can you get a counselor or therapist to talk to? It really sounds like you could use somebody that you can trust to talk to. You know that you can always come here, but some therapy would help you get through this situation.

Hugs, Karen
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ivy6
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   Posted 3/13/2008 11:23 PM (GMT -7)   
Oh, Angel. I'm so sorry this has happened. You must be feeling very alone right now.

OK, first things first:
1. Have you left home?
2. Do you feel you need to leave for your own safety?
3. When you said that your Dad hit you, did you mean a smack, or did you mean a beating? How badly did your sister hurt you? Has this happened before?

It's difficult for me to offer much practical advice because I don't know what state you're in, but I'd feel a lot happier if I knew you had some official support there. It must be even harder for you, as I'm sure you're aware that year 12 is an important year, and will need some stability in your life if you're to get through all your exams and assignments.

I'm worried, too, because it's Friday afternoon. I don't want you out on the streets this weekend. Will you try to get some support for yourself, Angel? Please?

Here are some ideas to get you started:
1. your school counsellor or psychologist (this might have to wait 'til Monday).
2. any church (just go to a service, or ring the bell of the house where the priest / minister lives) - I'd suggest trying the Catholics, Anglicans or Salvos first, as they tend to have aid agencies attached to their churches. The Salvos also offer family counselling and mediation, and I think you might need that.
3. the emergency department of your local hospital - show them your injuries, and ask to speak with the hospital social worker or the person who deals with adolescent health issues (there should be a duty worker on call over the weekend).
4. KidsHelpLine - 1800 551 800
5. Lifeline - 13 11 14
6. There might be a youth support service in your area - look in your phone book.

Remember, you are under the age of 18, and our community has a duty of care towards you. You may feel as if you have no-one, but people will be there to help you - it's just a matter of knocking on the right doors. You may need to try a few before you find someone who is able to help you, but I am certain that the help will be there.

Angel, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Please keep coming back here and talking to us and reassuring us that you're ok. I'm sure I'm not alone in being worried for you.

*hug*

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ShynSassy
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   Posted 3/14/2008 5:15 AM (GMT -7)   
Angel
I wanted to welcome you to the forum,and I too am very sorry for what you are going through.

Please take the advice that you have been given,you do not deserve to be in such a violent home.

We will be here for you when you need us.

stay strong!
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MMMNAVY
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   Posted 3/14/2008 10:34 AM (GMT -7)   
Angel,
Just came to check and see how you are doing. Thank you Ivy for getting the resources.
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getting by
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   Posted 3/14/2008 11:08 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Angel,

I sure do hope that things are getting better for you. I think that Ivy has gotten you some good information.

Hugs Karen
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stkitt
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   Posted 3/14/2008 11:11 AM (GMT -7)   

Hello angel,

Welcome to HealingWell and I am so glad you found this forum.  I have depression and I come here when I need help and support and it is always a blessing to have these wonderful members  support me.

Keep posting and you will find the members very willing to help you.
Hugs to you

Kitt

 


 
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