very depressed help plz!!

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sheryl=jk
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   Posted 5/1/2008 4:01 AM (GMT -7)   
my relationshio with my husband hasnt been well for a while.  but i finally blew up at him last night, he has built own little apt downstairs. he in a very mean tone asked where the plunger was and i screamed at him, not to talk to me in that fkn tone anymore, and that when i get a job and on my two feet im leaving and taking my daughter with me, he said your not taking her anywhere. no body helps around here, nobody, ok so he works two jobs, but he can get on the kids to help me, i cant do alone. if i lived in a little room like he does my room would be clean too, my daughter sleeps with me. She afraid of her older brother with good reason. I cant leavbe her, hell i cant even leave ia have no money, I want our relationship to be good, but I am guessing its beyond that now.
 
God Bless,and have a Great Day!!.......Love.....Sheryl
xcema,hypermobile,Chronic Bronchitus,Fatigue,Positive ANAFibro-05--Had surgery on left & right knees 06, Interstial Cystitis-06  implanted Interstim-06 hysterectomy & IBS-06 Arthiritus-04 Depression-04GERDS/ Hiatial hernia -07   Anxiety-07 Gastroparesis-08--Occasional Migraines Reglan,Protonix,Prozac,Wellbutrin,Erthomyicin,klonipin,occasional phernergan Im marrried 2 children, one with mild autism, Bipolar(8), she takes Abilify, Buspar, Celexa Son(13) is bipolarw/migraines, Topamax, ZantacGod plz grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference..." Plz help HW to help others by donating: http://www.healingwell.com/donate/


ShynSassy
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   Posted 5/1/2008 4:29 AM (GMT -7)   
Sheryl

Oh no,I saw myself in your story..lived it for a very long time.

Is there anyway that you can take your daughter and go stay with a family member or a friend?
I know it is hard,but you have to look out for your daughter at this point. She will be effected for years from all of the fighting.

If he is living in a apt downstairs,then maybe he should also consider getting out of the house for good.

Please be careful,and please think about it.
Shy


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Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia

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sheryl=jk
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   Posted 5/1/2008 5:54 AM (GMT -7)   
he wont hurt me or her, and i started the fight, becuz he was talking in a down to me voice, which I was getting sick of. I went bezerk and asked why he was talking to me in such a frking tone, thatts when i snapped and said when i had a permanent job i was leaving, and my girl got upset and said take me with you jae will beat me up, and he will jae is her brother, thats why i take her with me to protect her from her brother. Her father loves her very much so do I.  I have been out of a job a long time now, and hope to find one substitute teaching this falll hopefully turn into something perment. ANd thats when i would leave for two reasons, the two kids dont get along. And i fear for the younger ones saftey, and i know my husband doesnt have feelings anymore. but he would never hirt me. I have no where to go til i make money.
 
God Bless,and have a Great Day!!.......Love.....Sheryl
xcema,hypermobile,Chronic Bronchitus,Fatigue,Positive ANAFibro-05--Had surgery on left & right knees 06, Interstial Cystitis-06  implanted Interstim-06 hysterectomy & IBS-06 Arthiritus-04 Depression-04GERDS/ Hiatial hernia -07   Anxiety-07 Gastroparesis-08--Occasional Migraines Reglan,Protonix,Prozac,Wellbutrin,Erthomyicin,klonipin,occasional phernergan Im marrried 2 children, one with mild autism, Bipolar(8), she takes Abilify, Buspar, Celexa Son(13) is bipolarw/migraines, Topamax, ZantacGod plz grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference..." Plz help HW to help others by donating: http://www.healingwell.com/donate/


ShynSassy
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   Posted 5/1/2008 2:46 PM (GMT -7)   
There are programs that can help you, you are saying that you fear for your daughter's safety due to the oldest child? Then something needs to be done.

Have you two went into joint counseling?
Shy


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sheryl=jk
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   Posted 5/2/2008 7:04 AM (GMT -7)   
no, and yes I fear the younger one getting hurt by the older one, things have calmed down. I m still very depressed, with my husband working two job kinda hard fir counseling in there, i wish we could.
 
God Bless,and have a Great Day!!.......Love.....Sheryl
xcema,hypermobile,Chronic Bronchitus,Fatigue,Positive ANAFibro-05--Had surgery on left & right knees 06, Interstial Cystitis-06  implanted Interstim-06 hysterectomy & IBS-06 Arthiritus-04 Depression-04GERDS/ Hiatial hernia -07   Anxiety-07 Gastroparesis-08--Occasional Migraines Reglan,Protonix,Prozac,Wellbutrin,Erthomyicin,klonipin,occasional phernergan Im marrried 2 children, one with mild autism, Bipolar(8), she takes Abilify, Buspar, Celexa Son(13) is bipolarw/migraines, Topamax, ZantacGod plz grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference..." Plz help HW to help others by donating: http://www.healingwell.com/donate/


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   Posted 5/2/2008 7:10 AM (GMT -7)   
Sheryl,

Are you going to any counseling yourself? I think that you should, it would help you get throught these trying times. Also once you start the wellbutrin, you will feel better, and have more energy.

Keep that chin up. You will make it. I just know it.

hugs, Karen
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sheryl=jk
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   Posted 5/2/2008 7:12 AM (GMT -7)   
I have started the wellbutrin, maybe need to be on a higher dose and not on the extended release kind just the regular kind,maybe twice a day.
 
God Bless,and have a Great Day!!.......Love.....Sheryl
xcema,hypermobile,Chronic Bronchitus,Fatigue,Positive ANAFibro-05--Had surgery on left & right knees 06, Interstial Cystitis-06  implanted Interstim-06 hysterectomy & IBS-06 Arthiritus-04 Depression-04GERDS/ Hiatial hernia -07   Anxiety-07 Gastroparesis-08--Occasional Migraines Reglan,Protonix,Prozac,Wellbutrin,Erthomyicin,klonipin,occasional phernergan Im marrried 2 children, one with mild autism, Bipolar(8), she takes Abilify, Buspar, Celexa Son(13) is bipolarw/migraines, Topamax, ZantacGod plz grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference..." Plz help HW to help others by donating: http://www.healingwell.com/donate/

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