Great reply by Shy. I agree 100% with her. Everyone has a breaking point when you have to say enough and take care of you. Do try therapy and then make you decisions based on what is going to be best for you and the children.
You deserve happiness and right now you are miserable. Remember you cannot change your husband, he must get help for himself or risk losing life as he knows it now.
hi there,ihave to be blunt,i agree with al the other replies ,however what effect is his behaviour having on the emotional development of your children?i know you love yor career,but whats important here.if youhavnt already your gonna reach breaking point he already resents you being away but maybe the support you say he gets from family and friends just isnt enough maybe he needs you ,so do the kids,depressions bad enough but when your roc k bottom its really hard to be honest with people you love about what help, is actually given and what is actually neede d.this bloke needs some action now before something happens.youneed time out i knoew thats not as simple when your in your line of wirk,but something needs to give asap if not for the kids sake its not just about him and his illness ,depression affecys everone around them.oh and are you sure hes not bipolar theres a lot of similar trates ie spending etc i know that can also be a comfort thing to.
look im sorry to be so blunt but it does matter,my thoughts are with you,take care tigereye in the uk