You have a thread on this topic or am I mistaken?
I know you are feeling lonely and I am too as I sit here alone right now and feel a bit sorry for myself but I know if I let it get the best of me I will be miserable all weekend.
I guess I watched to many Hallmark commercials as I thought that was how life would be but in reality it is not.
So I take it one day at a time and I try to stay in the moment, I know I am sensitive and I need to let go of things or I am the one hurting and the rest of the world keeps on turning.
I hope you feel better and can get out and walk and do the book store. I would do the book store with you as I do love to read.
I hope you have a good weekend and that you will have some laughter in your days.
Kitt, Moderator: Anxiety, Panic & Depression *~*
Hi Kitt, I know I aready posted a thread on the 4th. I guess I just needed to write to try to make myself feel better and to occupy my time. I am going to have many other weekends alone so I am just going to have to get used to this and make the best of it and try to make plans ahead of time. I do have so many things to look forward to in the fall so I am just keeping that in mind that things will improve. Maybe someone will be in chat this weekend and I can join in. Thanks for your help.
I will be around all weekend so maybe I can post and get some people into the chat rooms. You too, just post your in the Depression chat room and give it a bit for someone to join in. I will watch for your post.
You are welcome to use the site to post your thoughts anytime if it makes you feel better.
Remember it is not just the 4th of July , it is Independence Day so revel in your independence.
Thanks Kitt, I will post or enter the chat room over the weekend. Just returned from dinner with a friend and we had a very nice time. The first day of a long weekend is always hardest for me and I have gotten thru this day and survived without too much lonliness. And it is later at night where I am so will watch TV and read some new magazines. I hope to get to the bookstore tomorrow but am not sure I will. The pain I am having is really bothering me. I am beginning to think I have a UT infection but no burning when I go to the bathroom so I just don't know. I don't get the results of my urine test until Mon. The Dr. gave me a prescription pain med but i'm afraid to take it. It is one of those nsaid pain relievers but it came with all these warnings and that's enough to scare the daylights out of you. But if the pain is bad tomorrow I wil take it. Take care and i'll keep posting and going to the chat room to see who is there to talk to.
Many hugs, Aurora
So glad you had a nice dinner. Well it is the holiday and I am here on the puter..................no plans, have to do some chores, give the dog her bath and visit with all of you.
The day will go by fast and before we know it today will be tomorrow.
Hope you feel better. I use Pyridium for pain of burning with UTI. You can buy it over the counter in the drug store. It is a urinary tract analgesic that helps relieve the pain, burning, urgency, frequency and irritation caused by an infection. Pyridium will turn your urine orange......so if you choose to try it don't panic at the orange color. Again I am not a professional but this does work well for me.
It is an old med and used to be only available by RX.
Talk with you later.Kitt
Hi Kitt, thanks for the info. I have used pyridium in the past and do have some. The problem is I have no urgency and no burning, just normal going. What I have is low pelvic pain. The Dr. did not feel anything when she examined me and doesn't know yet if it is a UT infection. I'll get test results Mon. and have my ultrasound Mon. In the meantime I still have this pain which is keeping me from doing things. I am going to keep my plans for tomrrow though cause I will go nuts if I don't get out. I am staying home all day today I decided so I can rest and maybe I will feel better. Right now i'm taking Advil for pain. I am afraid to use the prescription the Dr. gave me. Talk to you later. Will check the chat room.
Brian, Harming yourself will not do any good, This is not the answer. If you don't want your gf to email you don't open her emails. Better yet, cancel your current email address and get a new one that she can't find. Only you can break the cycle of hurt from her. I feel bad for you as you are upset but you will get thru this.Keep posting and let us know how things are going. Take care of yourself first.
I agree withh Auroua, its hard and i ve been there, where a boyfreind would still call and its was the hardest thing i had to do was not answer the phone he would plead with me on theanswering machine to answer the phone but i woulnt. You cant open her emials if its gonna make you feel this bad. and hurting yourslef not gonna help either ive been down that road before too, have scars, but i w really wish hadnt done it now.
we just care about you and dont want to see you hurt yourself.
You do not have to open the emails from your girlfirend, just delete them and let it go. Or go into your email and put her address down as spam and it will go to your spam account. You are a good person but you will feel better if you just don't open the emails.
I am sorry your upset but along with Karen I must warn you of the rules, please no more posts along the lines of what you posted this morning.
We have members as young as 13 on the boards.
Discussions of suicide or self-harm that are deemed negative and therefore potentially injurious to others are also not permitted.