That is okay Darren,
That is what this board is all about, different advice from different people. I guess that his depression could be from helping her, but I don't think that she should feel guilty for his problem.
I think though that she could guide him to getting help like she did for herself. But when it comes down to it, it is up to him to do it. So I don't want to have her feel responsible for his problems. But we do own our own moods. It is up to the individual to control the way that he/she feels.
No problem with the disagreement, just a difference of opinions. Thank you my friend...
Best wishes to all,
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies