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savetheday
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Date Joined Jul 2008
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   Posted 7/27/2008 9:29 PM (GMT -7)   
Everytime someone gets rid of me, whether it be friend or significant other or whatever, they become 100x happier. That tells me so much about what I am.....because I wanted so much to be happy.

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thirstyforchrist
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Total Posts : 416
   Posted 7/27/2008 9:47 PM (GMT -7)   
savetheday,
Please hold on okay? You will get through this. Take deep breaths and stay calm. Please dont do anything to yourself. One of the moderators will be along soon and they have crisis numbers for you to call if you need to. I will keep you in my prayers.
Rachel
"There is hope for every man, a solid place where we can stand, in this dry in weary land, there is hope for every man... Jesus is hope for every man"  -Casting Crowns


TeNNiSd0C09
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Total Posts : 1303
   Posted 7/27/2008 11:15 PM (GMT -7)   
savetheday,

Please hold on. Do not do anything to hurt yourself. If you give yourself time, it will past. I have the same thing happen to me and I had to learn to give it some time and I would feel better. Suicide is not the only way to handle things. Its the worst way to handle things. You should never have to feel like its your only way out. There are people who care about you and are here for you. There are people who want to help you.

National Suicide Hotline
1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
Call are automatically routed to the nearest crisis center to the phone from which the call for help is placed.

Helpful Web Sites:
Suicide Hotlines (listed by state)
Suicidal.com (includes Suicide Crisis Center and Depression and Suicide)


I hope this helps you some. Try it. Trust me, suicide isnt the answer you want. Things can be happy, but you cant expect to be able to wiggle your nose and things be perfect. I would suggest talking about it some more. Maybe try counseling if you arent already? Just dont hurt yourself, it really isnt worth it. You mean alot more than that. You are better than that whether you know it or not. So, please, call the number. Talk to someone. Or, call 911. Or go to the hospital. There is no shame in how you are feeling. They would want you to go to them rather than have you hurt yourself. Please let someone know how you are feeling. Suicide is NOT the answer.

"Healing is an energy phenomenon. Hope is another word for Healing.
"Cracks in the concrete are just reminders that you fall apart no matter how strong you are"
"Sometimes it is best to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve"
"Im going to smile like nothing is wrong, talk like everything is perfect, act like its all a dream, and pretend its not hurting me."


Confusedli
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Date Joined Apr 2008
Total Posts : 363
   Posted 7/28/2008 12:54 AM (GMT -7)   
SavetheDay,

You can be happy. Sometimes It just takes a bit of work. Suicide is not the answer, suicide means that you can never be happy or feel anything again.
 
 
"The Optimist sees the rose and not its thorns; the pessimist stares at the thorns, oblivious of the rose."


ShynSassy
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   Posted 7/28/2008 4:18 AM (GMT -7)   
Save the Day

Please use the numbers that Tennis listed (Thank you Tennis)
We will be here for you, just take a deep breath and talk to us about what is going on.

You can use any of the mods emails that are listed,we are here to help.

You have found a wonderful site where every member on this board has felt like you at some point..
Shy


Mod- Depression

Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia

Please remember,I am not a professional..I am just a person who is also fighting depression.


I know I'm in my own little world, but it's ok. They know me here.


stkitt
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Date Joined Apr 2007
Total Posts : 32602
   Posted 7/28/2008 5:10 AM (GMT -7)   

Savetheday,

Hello, this is Kitt.  Tennis gave you great info and I am glad she was online when you were posting.  I am going to expand the list for you so please do print the list of crisis numbers and keep them handy.

U.S. Helplines


The US Suicide Hotline 1-800-784-2433

NDMDA Depression Hotline | Support Group. 800-826-3632

Suicide Prevention Services Crisis Hotline 800-784-2433

Suicide Prevention Services Depression Hotline 630-482-9696

Crisis Help Line | For Any Kind of Crisis 800-233-4357

Suicide & Depression Hotline | Covenant House 800-999-9999

------Online Hotline Resources--------

SuicideHotlines.com

Befrienders International :: The Samaritans

Metanoia :: Online Therapists

suicidal.com/suicidalteens/

www.selfinjury.com/index.html

Please remember you may always call 911 for help to and they will take you to the hospital.

I am sorry you are feeling so down but please remember the world is a better place because you live and serve within it.  WE are here for you, talk to us about your depression.

Gentle Hugs

Kitt


 

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getting by
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Date Joined Sep 2007
Total Posts : 40565
   Posted 7/28/2008 10:03 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Savetheday,

You have been given some very good advise here, and some good resources to contact. Please hang on, we are here for you. You can get through this, I promise. Keep posting, everybody here cares about you.

Christi,

Thank you for being there, you are a life saver.

Luv and hugs, Karen
  Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
 
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies


ShynSassy
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Date Joined Dec 2005
Total Posts : 3036
   Posted 7/30/2008 3:57 AM (GMT -7)   
Savetheday


We would like to hear from you,how are you?
Shy


Mod- Depression

Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia

Please remember,I am not a professional..I am just a person who is also fighting depression.


I know I'm in my own little world, but it's ok. They know me here.

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