Welcome to HealingWell and I am so glad you found us. I know exactly what you mean about the ungrateful and to busy to be bothered by parents attitude.
My husband had surgery last Wed but the adult children were all to busy so I sat alone all day, home that night and back the next day and brought my husband home. My daughter was booked into state fair project on Wed, Thursday and Friday................finally had time for her Dad on Saturday.
My son was on the road for work and then he had plans for the whole week end with his family. I finally called him last night and told him his Dad would appreciate seeing him. He came over today and brought lunch.
It is a whole different generation. I guess they live life their way and our expectations of them are set to high.
Your daughter should be held responsible for her loan and to be irate with you because she did not pay is just not right. I am so sorry you had to go through this.
I am also sorry to read you husband is in the hospital and you have my prayers coming your way. Bless you and take care of you.
Kitt, Moderator: Anxiety/Panic & Depression& GERD Forums*~*
Hi again Kloe, I am so glad you were able to get your feelings out. This is a good place to vent and you are right about it being easier to do it with neutral people. Those of us not close to the situation can sometimes come up with a good solution for you. I understand that you did not want to bother your husband. I hope he comes home from the hospital and has time to rest and get better. And you are right about you and your daughter having a cooling off period. When you are both calm it will be easier to talk things out. Keep posting, it is good to have you here on the forum.