Post Edited (getting by) : 9/22/2008 10:02:02 AM (GMT-6)
Hello, this is Kitt.
We all want to be liked and respected. Most of us have an inborn trait to be kind and we do our best to help others in need. We are not dumb, we are kind to a fault sometimes.
The problem is that in our kindness and sharing we sometimes leave ourselves vulnerable to the nasty, selfish people who are only pretending to like us to satisfy their own agendas.
Recognize the people that are not good for you and look for all those kind and caring people out there that would love to have a new friend.
Kitt, Moderator: Anxiety/Panic & Depression& GERD Forums*~*
yeah it could be frustrating when people tend to do that because it does make a person feel worse. when i was growing up, i always was picked on only because i sat by myself, and tend to sound people out. it put a lot of fear in myself because of the anger that it caused. if u try to look hard enough, you will find that people are willing to help. i guess you can see that with this website. you see there are a lot more people that want to help and be your friend, but you have to look within theirs and your heart to know who is a true friend and knows exactly what you are going through and who really doesnt care. i can tell you though, it took me 13 years to get up the courage but i found true friends, and its helped me a lot in school. and this, im willing to be there for you if you need anyone to talk to.