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Supermom83
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   Posted 12/3/2008 1:25 AM (GMT -7)   
Oh, there is one other thing I forgot to mention. Two years ago, the father of my children stabbed me 16 times. The dr said I was not supposed to come out of the hospital, but I left the next morning. I was stabbed 6 times in my left arm, 4times in my head, 2 times in my spine, 2 times in my left shoulder, 2 times in my chest. I have alot of emotional problems stemming from that, as well as my son. He seen it happen. He goes to counselilng also, but my little boy is gone forever. He literally changed overnight when he saw the stabbing, when he saw the marks on my body. He was 3 at the time. Of course, I still have the marks, but they have healed and don't look near as grotesque as it did when it happened. It is something no child should ever see. So, with everything I'm dealing with in my last post and this also, sometimes, I just feel so down and depressed. I don't know what to do. I've done everything I can for my son, yet the anger persists.

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   Posted 12/3/2008 7:41 AM (GMT -7)   
Kindra,

That is only natural. I would imagine that anybody would be angry. I hope that you have a restraining order on him. Did he go to jail for stabbing you? I sure hope so. You should have pressed charges. That was a horrific ordeal.

I am sorry that your son had to witness what happened to you. He will heal. As well as you will. Do you have your son in counseling? I think that maybe that would be a good idea for him. He was very young though and hopefully he wont carry this with him for long. I am sure that he loves his mommy and that will prevail.

You are lucky to have survived though such a terrible and painful event. Remember, you are a wonderful, kind and compassionate person. It is only natural that you would be depressed. I hope that you are going to counseling, you need the support system.

Either way, we are here for you. So please stay with us.

Hugs, Karen
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Confusedli
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   Posted 12/3/2008 7:49 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi SuperMom,

I read your other post aswell & just wanted to say hello. It sounds like you have had a really hard times of things throughtout your life & I think counselling would be really good for you, to help you work though things. No wonder you feel angry, I was stabbed in the leg by an ex-boyfriend of mine probably about 6 years ago now & I am still angry, so you must have this magnified about 20 times! I think your children are lucky that you are so strong!
Confusedli
 
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stkitt
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   Posted 12/3/2008 5:41 PM (GMT -7)   

I am so sorry for your pain and what a horrible trauma for you to go through.  I left a link in the other post that you too may want to look into.

I am glad you are talking to us but I am worried about you.

Be careful and take care.

Hugs

Kitt


 

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mom9mom
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   Posted 12/5/2008 1:54 AM (GMT -7)   
I just want to say that no one should have to go through the things that you have in your life.Thank god that you at lest have your sons.The love that you feel for them can help you get through some of the tramia you have been through.I will pray that you only have good things happen to you for the rest of your life.
Lost half of my small intestineJan.2008.Ilieostomy for 5 months then reverst in June 2008,Nerve damage to right leg,part of my right hip bone removed Jan. 2008,Cronic pain,hernia,infection in my back called discites,and depression.Gallbladder removed Nov,2008.Mother to 9 kids 7 boys 2 girls and 1 stepson.4 grandsons,9 grandaughters.4 of my grandkids I inherited from my twin sister who passed away 6 1/2 years ago from a blood clot after surgery.God has given me my life back after I almost lost it.Even though its a painful and sometimes hard road to walk I take it one step at a time and give thanks to god for every step I take.


stkitt
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   Posted 12/5/2008 7:51 AM (GMT -7)   

Good Morning,

Everytime I read a story like yours I wonder "Why Bad Things Happen to Good People? "

Gentle hugs

Kitt


 

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