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mom9mom
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Date Joined Sep 2008
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   Posted 12/22/2008 11:09 PM (GMT -7)   
mad   mad   My son went to court on friday because his soon to be ex`s aunt is trying to get costody of his kids.Thay are all living in my houses because someone started a fire in his trailer when he was out of town for work.When thay first came here CPS. was called in by this aunt.After 2 weeks it was decided that there was no basis for the clames she was making.The same judge that gave him the kids last time we were in court was the judge this time.Even though CPS. came and gave a report that the kids were safe here and that we hade done everything that thay asked even allowing them to keep coming to check on the girls after there case was closed.This same judge did a about face and gave them to the aunt.Its is suppost to be temparary but it makes no since that she did this.My sons lawyer dos`nt know what happened he says by all rights my son should have won.He do`s have a bad past but he has always been the one to support the girls also he has not been in truble for 3 years.The mom is unstable at this time and her DR will not go to bat for her in court that is why the aunt went to court.I really miss my girls.The only thing her aunt has better then us is money.She has not been part of the girls lifes more then a handful of time in the past.All of us have always been there.I wounder if some how she payed someone for the judgment.I hate to even say this but in are world money almost always wins.Plus I have been in alot of pain all week long and I have to have surgeary on new years eve on my back.Thay have to fuse the L3 and L4 vertabra thay are starting to compress my nerve.Well i guess this post is long enuff but it helps to talk about it all. mad mad
Lost half of my small intestineJan.2008.Ilieostomy for 5 months then reverst in June 2008,Nerve damage to right leg,part of my right hip bone removed Jan. 2008,Cronic pain,hernia,infection in my back called discites,and depression.Gallbladder removed Nov,2008.Mother to 9 kids 7 boys 2 girls and 1 stepson.4 grandsons,9 grandaughters.4 of my grandkids I inherited from my twin sister who passed away 6 1/2 years ago from a blood clot after surgery.God has given me my life back after I almost lost it.Even though its a painful and sometimes hard road to walk I take it one step at a time and give thanks to god for every step I take.


Akram
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   Posted 12/23/2008 12:34 AM (GMT -7)   
mom9mom, sounds like you and your son are going through a hard time, may god be with you durring these times and I hope this thing is over soon, and I hope your surgeary goes ok on new years eve, god bless :)
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getting by
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   Posted 12/23/2008 9:43 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Mom,

I am sorry about the judges decision. But hopefully this is only temporary. Is the aunt a blood relative to you or is she the mother's relative?

I hope that your surgery goes well for you. You will be healing for a while, so take it easy.

We are always here for you.

Hugs, Karen
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mom9mom
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Date Joined Sep 2008
Total Posts : 489
   Posted 12/23/2008 3:31 PM (GMT -7)   
The aunt is a blood relative.But 1.She runs a small group home in her house (She has 2 female and 2 male)for the mentally handcapped.2.She has not spent more then 2 weeks of time with the girls in there whole lifes and thay are 8,6,and 1 1/2 .I dont think a group home is a good place for my grandaughters to be raised.
Lost half of my small intestineJan.2008.Ilieostomy for 5 months then reverst in June 2008,Nerve damage to right leg,part of my right hip bone removed Jan. 2008,Cronic pain,hernia,infection in my back called discites,and depression.Gallbladder removed Nov,2008.Mother to 9 kids 7 boys 2 girls and 1 stepson.4 grandsons,9 grandaughters.4 of my grandkids I inherited from my twin sister who passed away 6 1/2 years ago from a blood clot after surgery.God has given me my life back after I almost lost it.Even though its a painful and sometimes hard road to walk I take it one step at a time and give thanks to god for every step I take.

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