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dancinshoes
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Date Joined Feb 2009
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   Posted 2/9/2009 7:57 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi can anyone help me? I can't seem to move on its been 6 months now & i'm still punishing my husband for something i found out about him which ain't a big deal I can't make sense of it & i tell my self if ain't a big deal, but its left me thinking i don't really know him, my mates & i agree he's one in a million & he would never do anything to hurt me intentionally. I don't mean to but if something comes on the TV or i get drunk or i've been thinking i bring the past up. I'm desperate to move on as i'm ruining our relationship, i feel like i'm falling I can't sleep, i'm constantly thinking about what happened 6 months ago, i cry everyday, my confidants is 0, i just want everything to be happy again but i worry that my husband is gonna leave. I even got revenge which wasn't the plan but it happened & he forgave me & is moving on. I need to get over this Can anyone give me advice what i should do.Many thanks xVIEW IMAGE

getting by
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   Posted 2/9/2009 8:52 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Dancinshoes,

Alcohol always brings up these things. So I think that if you stopped drinking you wouldn't be so bothered by what happened. So try that.

I want to welcome you to the HealingWell depression forum. You will find a lot of warm and compassionate members here. So I hope that you stick around and use the forum.

Best wishes to a wonderful day.

Hugs, Karen
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Akram
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Date Joined Feb 2005
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   Posted 2/9/2009 9:21 AM (GMT -7)   
dancinshoes, welcome to the forum, what is it your hubby did? I'm just confused as what the issue is really..


stkitt
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   Posted 2/9/2009 9:35 AM (GMT -7)   

Hi Dancinshoes,

Welcome to HealingWell and the Depression Forum.

You posted that what your husband did was no big deal but to me it feels like you are fooling yourself as it was a big deal if you are obsessing about it and you got even.

I am with Akram on this one, if you would be willing to share a bit more info perhaps we could give you some advice.

The members of HW are supportive and caring and we do not judge.

Again a warm welcome.

Kitt


 

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