because i want my girlfriend to have her independance. my girlfriend is under her mothers control, she wants out of her mothers house. because i stood up for her and me. i asked that we be treated as adults. her brother thinks she is unable to be in a relationship, he beleives she is a child, heck she is 38! and let me tell you she might have trouble with her memory and in vocalizations but she knows what she wants, that is to be treated as a woman, this is what i do. obviously i am seen as a risk factor to the family because of my mental illness. she is over protected, albeit slowly changing. thanx for replying. i am a pain in the ass, but a loveable one. been up all night, decided not to take the seroquel tonight, need to think, as i will see my lady later today. collecting my thoughts so to speak.
This is a tough one as I know your heart is in the right place but I have to agree your new girlfriend has to speak for herself.
Also by not taking your medication and staying up all night I am not sure you are really in the best place right now to become seriously involved in this situation. It does appear to me, my opionion only, that it is causing you to be depressed and you must be able to take care of you first.
Take care and I will say a prayer for you.
thanx guys. going to bed. you are right, a momentary lapse of reason. sometimes we are our own worst enemy. just trying to be a loving man to my lady. my eyes are blood shot and i feel like crap, partly self inflicted, i was avoidance coping. sorry. good advice from good people.