Hi I am so glad that I was able to find a site that deals with this topic.
I am also new here and am deprate to know that I am not alone :(
My husband has been depressed since Dec, shortly after he hit rock bottom emotionally. I have been on an emotional rollercoster, and have needed to be stronge for our 3 yr old twins who do not understand what is wrong with mommy and daddy.
Why does mommy cry so much, why is daddy so unaprochable.
My husband was having an emotional attraction with another women at work, It got so bad with us that he was thinking of leaving me for this other women.
It has now been 3 weeks since he decided to invest in our marriage, and that his attraction was one sided. He has been on medication since the middle of Jan but don't seem to be working.
Things are a little better with us but he is still distant more time then not, and I am not getting the emotional support...or intamit conection with him that I am so despratly needing. Now that he has slipped back into a glum mood for over a week I fear that the other women might becomeo an issue again.
I fear that if I keep on bringing up how I feel, or my need for closeness, that I might push him away if he feels I am too needy.
I am trying to find ansewers on line of how to help him feel better, but when he gets in his moods I might as well talk to a wall.
I am very lonely, sad, and am very insecure about myself and my marriage :(