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THE HAPPY TURTLE
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Date Joined Mar 2009
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   Posted 4/6/2009 9:24 PM (GMT -7)   
hi community, yeah feelin' heaps better, am actually tired from doing things, i love this kind of tiredness as i know i can crash and have a deep solid. a solid 4 me is any uninterupted sleep. have been guiding a mate with a few intense and deep issues, although the time before last he overstayed his welcome, last night around 9pm i said very nicely that i have a busy day tom and that i will be kicking him out soon. i walked the dog, let him finish his drink and said i will catch up on thurs. he understood that i am tired, 1x9hr sess, and last night, 1x5hr. i do not mind helping, but just needed him to realise that i too need to de-stress before bed.
 
just got back from seeing gf, all is good, will see her tom, very happy to go slow, that way when we are both ready we will have the knowledge, werewithall, confidence and acceptance to start a relationship together and be together at the same time. happy to say, and have told her many times that i love her, and yes she loves me. so, no need to rush my dear friends.
 
going to lie down for a bit, then tackle some home stuff!! time waits for no man, yet time can be your best friend, but let me tell u i have learn't that it will never be my enemy again!! this journey of realisation and actualisation has been a long one, i will post a synopsis later, some wrong turns, pit-falls, u turns, poor decisions, etc.
 
thanx to the community, u guys have been a rock of knowledge and compassion...........
luv 2 all. jamiee tongue tongue

getting by
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   Posted 4/7/2009 6:39 AM (GMT -7)   
Jamiee,

It sounds like you are doing great, that is wonderful. Just don't over tax yourself helping Tom. You have your limitations as we all do. You can only do so much. But I give you credit for helping him. You are a wonderful person.

Best wishes for a wonderful day.

Hugs, Karen
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fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies


Raniah
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   Posted 4/7/2009 6:48 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey Jamiee,

Good for you, being able to set your boundaries while also continuing to help your friend. That's not an easy thing to do! I'm glad you are taking care of yourself and celebrating your success along the way. Best of luck with your girlfriend....it sounds like taking it slow is working out really well for you. Keep on posting.....you are very inspiring!

stkitt
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   Posted 4/7/2009 8:01 AM (GMT -7)   

Hey Jamiee,

You rock so keep on rocking and I am so glad to hear you feel better.

I wish you peace and happiness but most of all I wish you love..............

Kitt


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 4/8/2009 1:22 AM (GMT -7)   

thanx to kitt, raniah & karen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you wonderful people are truelly wonderful!!!!!!!!

massive thanx 4 your care and support, rock on!!!!!!!!!!!

jamiee, maybe i'll jump around with my walking stick and do the air-guitar thing later, yep i will rock on in tibute to you guys and this wonderful community.

jamiee scool scool scool skull skull skull

stkitt
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   Posted 4/8/2009 4:46 AM (GMT -7)   

The first post I read this morning and how fun and uplifting it is jaimee,  thanks my friend.

You have a really fantastic day yeah yeah yeah yeah

Kitt


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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Date Joined Mar 2009
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   Posted 4/8/2009 5:39 AM (GMT -7)   

you too my friend, as u are getting up it is getting late on the other side of the world! how are ya,

hope u have a positive day! all the best, jamie. scool scool yeah yeah tongue


Raniah
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   Posted 4/8/2009 6:00 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey Jamiee......it's always wonderful to see your positive attitude! Good for you!!!

THE HAPPY TURTLE
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Date Joined Mar 2009
Total Posts : 18761
   Posted 4/8/2009 6:10 AM (GMT -7)   
and you to my dear friend, have an awesome day!! may the sun shine on you, may the warmth be renewing and filled with spiritual luv. jamie.
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