This is Kitt. When you lose a close friend or love relationship, you are likely to feel great sorrow and heartache. Even when a bad relationship ends, there can be deep pain and grief.
Grief can be experienced even when an unfulfilling relationship ends, because, at the very least, you have lost the emotional investment you made in that relationship. There may be a sense of failure, hopelessness, loss, despair, fear, or desperation.
Let yourself feel and then let go of the hurt and the pain and the fear. You are going to be OK. Give yourself time to work through this broken relationship. Know you are a wonderful person and that you can stand on your own. I believe in you.
Good Morning NightWish
I am so happy to see the great response you received to your post. It does my heart good to read what each of the great members of this family have written to you.
You have a good attitude and you understand what is happening so you have already won have your battle. Just remember to go slow and take it one step at a time knowing we are all here beside you in spirit.
"When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." --- Kahlil Gibran
May you always walk in peace,Kitt