“If what I say resonates with you, it is merely because we are both branches on the same tree." ~W.B. Yeats
Dear Chartreux, I am so sorry to learn of this terrible event that has happened in your family. My heart goes out to those children losing their father in such an unbelievable way. I think what is hard for those left behind is understanding why this happens. You need time to grieve and there is no set amount of time that it takes. You will grieve for as long as you have to. If you could find a support group that might help all of you to get along better these next weeks and months. As far as your daughter, do try to celebrate her graduation. This is a special time for her and an occasion she will want to enjoy. Please remember that all your HW friends are thinking of you. You will be in my prayers. Try to take good care of you.