Whatever the reason for a breakup, coping can be a challenge, because even a disappointing relationship starts out with an emotional investment in what could be. Serious relationships begin on a high note of excitement and hope for the future. Letting go is one of the hardest things in life we have to do at times but in the long run it may be your best decision in this case.
Please know coming here is a wonderful and courageous step. You are voicing your fears so you know what they are.
Take care and do keep talking with us.