Karen is right. Don't let your ex's actions determine your sense of self-worth. You are a wonderful person in your own right. You're going through a tough time right now, and anyone would feel upset and hurt under those circumstances. Sometimes we are in a situation where we can't know "why", and we have to accept that someone has done something that we didn't expect, and that we cannot explain. This break up might have nothing to do with the things you've done or haven't done, and I don't want you to torture yourself with all the questions about
why he ended it. I agree.....this was not handled well by your ex at all, and you definitely deserved to be treated better, and with honesty and
openness. Give yourself a chance to heal from this....it takes time, but it will happen. It's often the way that when things end for us, other things come along in our lives that offer new opportunities. Trust in yourself to get through this, and know that we are here for you.
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