Hi Taryn, i am sorry you are feeling this way. Its a big upheaval to move and go away to college. you know how you are worried that your boyfriend will split with you because of the move? then i dont believe he deserves you. you should be able to feel 100% comfortable and secure in your relationship- but you sound like you have doubts. have you sat down and really talked this through with your boyfriend? maybe hes feeling scared too.
You also said that you "are pretty much arguing all the time". Is that really healthy for you? you need to look after yourself- and be as stress free as possible. Could the conflict you are experiencing be a part of your depression?
You are worthy of happiness, stability, security and inner peace.
Post Edited (Mazfire) : 7/20/2009 12:08:16 AM (GMT-6)
15. No SHOUTING. Remember, using CAPITAL LETTERS in posts is considered yelling and rude, plus it is difficult to read.
Post Edited By Moderator (Mazfire) : 7/29/2009 4:31:11 PM (GMT-6)
Raze I am sorry I had to edit your post- I am sure you dont intend to come across as agressive, but the capital letters telling Taryn she is in an abusive relationship is considered yelling. I know you are helping with advice but its important to remember that some people come here in a fragile state and its important to adress everyone with some diplomacy. From what Taryn has said, her relationship is complicated, not abusive.
I know you dont believe in 'sugar coating' and I agree with you on that, but there are polite ways to to make your point. You also said "havent i seen this post before?" You most likely have, its an older post and has been bumped up by Taryn replying.