Raze I am sorry I had to edit your post- I am sure you dont intend to come across as agressive, but the capital letters telling Taryn she is in an abusive relationship is considered yelling. I know you are helping with advice but its important to remember that some people come here in a fragile state and its important to adress everyone with some diplomacy. From what Taryn has said, her relationship is complicated, not abusive.
I know you dont believe in 'sugar coating' and I agree with you on that, but there are polite ways to to make your point. You also said "havent i seen this post before?" You most likely have, its an older post and has been bumped up by Taryn replying.
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