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   Posted 9/16/2009 9:55 PM (GMT -7)   
I wanted to start you a new thread as we were getting off topic of the other one.
 
First of all, did your sister say why she didn't want you to come over?  Did she have something going on and didnt't want to be interupted?  Maybe she had plans to do something else.  Being that she is in college now, and starting a new life right now, it is kind of understandable that she wouldn't want you there.  Not that she does'nt care, but she may have already have had plans.  Maybe you could call her and set up a time that is more convenient for her. 
 
Why do you feel unwanted by your family?  Just because you feel that way, doesn't make it so.  I am sure that your parents love you very much.  Do they both work?  You need to be realistic.  If you were unwanted, you wouldn't be there. 
 
I am sorry that your father made jokes about your sister not wanting you to come over.  What did he say? 
 
I hope that you can feel better about things.  It is okay if you are not feeling well enough to open up to others, in time you will.  I remember going through that stage at your age.  Bu the way, how old are you?  That would help alot with giving advice.  Do you see a counselor?  That is very important right now.
 
I hope that you feel better.
 
Karen
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Jvb1234
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   Posted 9/17/2009 5:35 AM (GMT -7)   
im 17
my sister didnt have anyother plans and wasn't doing anything else, i was going to go wiht my aunt and uncle who were going down for a wedding and i was going to be staying with them in a hotel the most i would ahve done was go out for dinner wither her and maybe hang out at the mall for a few hours at the most she just.. doesnt want to see me my aunt is still going and going to see her i'm not goin ganymroe
and well with my parents they both have their own businesses and i dont see much of them my dad gets up really early to leave for work and when he gets home he'll be in bed by 8 so i dont seem much of him.. except when hes bugging me about one thing or another or getting mad because i'm not workign enough or trying hard enough in school.
speeking of i have to go get ready.. i'm not lookign forward to today.. its going to be tough.

getting by
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   Posted 9/17/2009 9:26 AM (GMT -7)   
Do you think that you are depressed from all of this? Have you thought about talking to a school counselor? They can be very helpful.

I am sorry that you feel your parents don't care. Are your grades bad in school, to make your dad mad abuot it? Are you working somewhere?

IT sounds like your parents are very busy. Which I know makes it so that they don't spend much time with you. But it often takes two to keep a family afloat these days, which to me is sad. But that is the way that it is now a days.

I am sorry about your sister not wanting you there. Is she mad at you about something? Or maybe because she is older, she feels you are too young to hang with her. Again I am very sorry about that.

Do you have any friends of your own? Maybe it is time you get out and make some. There are various places for you to meet people. Such as the mall, or a book store. Even in school.

I hope that you feel better soon.

Hugs, Karen
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Jvb1234
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   Posted 9/19/2009 8:53 AM (GMT -7)   
i have good grades in school actually and i never get in trouble. i have 2 jobs 1 somewhere else and whenever i'm not working there i have to work at my moms. i cant talk to a school counselor because i live in small town and everyoen knows everythign and someone would find out and that would be bad for me.. i have made a new friend a while ago and and she's the oen that's figured out that i'm not as happy as i seem and yesterday she stayed over and we talked abit it was really hard for me but after i felt just a bit better.. but things are still not going good and just when i think i've found someoen i can actually talk to she's probably going to be moving back home with her mom and thats not making things much better for me

getting by
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   Posted 9/19/2009 10:42 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi there,
 
Even though you only got to spend a short time with your new friend, try to remember the good parts about it and know that there will be other friends coming along in your life.
 
Here is a site that might help you-
 
I hope that this helps some.  I am sorry that things are so difficult for you right now.  I hope that you feel better soon.
 
Hugs, Karen
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fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies


Jvb1234
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   Posted 9/19/2009 7:20 PM (GMT -7)   
tonight i'm at home bymyself and i can't handle the silence its weighing on me and i don't know what to do i've tried to distract myself but it seems that nothing i try is working. i dont know whats wrong i can't explain it. i don't want to stay home but i have no where to go, or nothin to do i feel like i need to get out of this town for a while and just ... escape. i don't liek feelign this but i dont know how not to...

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   Posted 9/19/2009 7:36 PM (GMT -7)   

Hello,

This is Kitt and I am sorry you are feeling down.  Karen has posted you a great site to check out.  You may find others who know where your coming from and what your going through.

Please do check it out.

http://www.teencentral.net/

Teen Central is an anonymous Help-line web site
for teens, by teens just like you!

It was developed by experts in teen counseling and psychology and is professionally monitored.

You will find it may be pretty quiet around HW on a weekend. 

Take care,

Kitt



 

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Post Edited (stkitt) : 9/19/2009 8:40:42 PM (GMT-6)


Jvb1234
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   Posted 9/19/2009 9:06 PM (GMT -7)   
ok thanks for trying to help
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