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Date Joined Apr 2008
Total Posts : 363
   Posted 9/24/2009 3:35 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Guys,
It's' been such a long time since I have been on here, how are you all?
Last time I posted, I had just split up with my boyfriend and was feeling really down about it.  I'm still not completely over that, but I am moving forwards from it and thats the main thing.  I have realised that I am actually much happier without him than I ever was with him, and although I miss him a lot, I feel much more blanaced on the whole.  I have also finished with my counselling, my counsellor said that she thought I was ready to be with out it and so I am.  I miss it in ways, but I am much more able these days to open up to the people in my life and thats a big step for me.
It's been a year and 3 months now since my Dad died as well, I still think about him loads and miss him everyday. 
Anyway I just wanted to catch up with everyone and see how you are all doing,
"The Optimist sees the rose and not its thorns; the pessimist stares at the thorns, oblivious of the rose."
"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, its about learning to dance in the rain"

Elite Member

Date Joined Mar 2009
Total Posts : 18548
   Posted 9/24/2009 4:51 AM (GMT -6)   
hey li, well done on your improvements and well-being, proud of ya! my condlences over the loss of your dad. grief is a very personnel thing, no right or wrong way, just remember that we are here for you! keep well, give yourself a reward my dear, take care, to continued renewed health, jamie.
yeah   yeah yeah

gentleman k
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Date Joined May 2009
Total Posts : 87
   Posted 9/24/2009 7:42 PM (GMT -6)   
sounds like you've come a long way. Glad to hear you are moving on with your life. Take care and continued good health to you.

gentleman k

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   Posted 9/24/2009 8:58 PM (GMT -6)   

I am so happy that you popped in and so happy that you are doing good. Thanks for posting. We all miss you.

Hugs, Karen
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Date Joined Apr 2007
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   Posted 9/25/2009 3:57 PM (GMT -6)   

Hey Li,

It has been a long time and I am so glad to see you back here checking in with all of us. 

I am thrilled to hear you have been through therapy and that your counsellor felt you were ready to be out on your own.  Remember thearpy is always there should a time come when you feel you need a little infusion down the road.

I am going back to therapy for a bit as I ran into some problems but that is the nature of depression.

I know you have wings now and you will be able to fly and use the skills you learned so I wish you peace and happiness.  Be well and take care.

Hugs at you,



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