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CassandraLee
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   Posted 10/3/2009 9:03 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Everyone.  I really haven't posted too much over the past six months, but I have been here regularly to read and think of each of you.  For those of you who may remember, about 6 months ago I had posted about some serious issues that had come up in my life.  Well, it appears on Monday, that one of these issues will be coming to a final head - where a decision will be made for me.  And the next few weeks will continue to be critical too.
 
I've done a lot of praying, crying, cleaning and hysterical laughing during this journey and I feel really scared and alone right now.  I'm not at liberty to go into details online, but if you could send me any good wishes and prayers on Monday in particular, I'd really appreciate it.
 
Cass

NightWish
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   Posted 10/3/2009 11:55 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Cass,

Wow, amazing that I could have written that post myself, as I am also dealing with a "Monday decision" that will determine a lot. Let's keep positive thoughts and prayers out there for each other, OK? :-)

NW
Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it. -Tori Amos


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 10/4/2009 1:15 AM (GMT -7)   
thoughts, prayers and healing compassion to cass and nw. kind regards. jamie.

getting by
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   Posted 10/4/2009 8:32 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey Cass and NW,

Know that we are here for the both of you. And send good wishes and strength. We all get into these predicaments where it gets really tough. so all of us are praying for you.

Best wishes,

Hugs, Karen
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Korissa
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   Posted 10/4/2009 11:39 AM (GMT -7)   
Prayers are going out for both of you that the decisions made on Monday will go in your favor!

Please let us know how you are when you can.

I pray you will be calm and at peace in the meantime.

Jeannie143
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   Posted 10/4/2009 11:49 AM (GMT -7)   
Sending prayers to you both.
~ Jeannie, Forum Moderator/Diabetes & Fibromyalgia
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ConfusedDenizen
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   Posted 10/4/2009 12:12 PM (GMT -7)   
You have my prayers as well.

Aurora60
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   Posted 10/4/2009 2:00 PM (GMT -7)   

Dear Cass, You are very much in my thoughts and prayers.  I was wondering why I hadn't seen you post in so long and i'm sorry you are going through such a rough time.  Please know that I am here for you and understand there is much on your mind. I will be thinking of you tomorrow and hope all goes the best for you. Please post again so I know you are doing OK and let me know if there is any way in which I can be of more support. You are such a dear and special person, I am sorry you are in pain right now. Sending you all good thoughts today and tomorrow. NW, I too am praying for you and hoping you will resolve your decision for the best tomorrow. I am here to support you as well and hope you will post how you are doing. Wishing the very best for you and will keep you in my thoughts for the best resolution to your decision. Take good care of yourself.

Love,

Aurora


CassandraLee
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   Posted 10/4/2009 9:14 PM (GMT -7)   
Hello Everyone.
 
Wow.  Thank you all for your best wishes and support. I actually started smiling as I started reading through your messages. And NW I'm sorry your in a similar Monday predicament, so I'll be thinking of you tomorrow as well and hoping that things go your way..  Jamie and Karen, we're so lucky to have you behind us..you two are truly our anchors in this forum. Korissa, Jeannie and Confused - thank you as well.  And Aurora, I'm so glad to see you here and I hope you're feeling much better now.  Thank you for such a nice post - I think the world of you too.
 
I've got all my fingers and toes crossed for tomorrow. I just need a little break and don't need for things to get even worst.
 
Cass

NightWish
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   Posted 10/4/2009 10:55 PM (GMT -7)   
Amazing how much better I feel already knowing I have people behind me who care. I'll be sure to keep you posted.
Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it. -Tori Amos


Sooty
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   Posted 10/5/2009 5:08 AM (GMT -7)   
I'm new here, but appreciate all I have read. I'm wishing you well, and I hope for the best for you. Good luck!

NightWish
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   Posted 10/6/2009 2:01 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi everyone, the "decision" that was supposed to happen on Monday is actually still up in the air. I am basically trying to figure out whether I should leave or stay in my current situation. I am just so depressed and everyone thinks I'm being still and should stick it out. Please think good thoughts for me, that I may find my way on the road to less stress and anxiety.

NW
Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it. -Tori Amos


getting by
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   Posted 10/6/2009 8:39 PM (GMT -7)   
Nightwish,

I wish you peace and tranquility and happiness. I hope that you start seeing less stressful days soon.

Hugs, Karen
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CassandraLee
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   Posted 10/7/2009 8:02 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Nightwish.  I'm glad that you posted back again as I have been thinking about you.  Relationship issues are tough to analyze because they are so emotional at the same time.  I have been divorced for about 5 years now and it took many years for me to make the decision to call it quits.  Luckily, it was my therapist who stuck by me like glue during those 3 years, helping me work through my emotions, my fears, etc.  Do you have your own therapist or counselor who can help guide you through this important decision?  If not, I definately recommend finding one that can stand by you regardless of the decision you make.
 
As to my own Monday, it was extremely stressful.  The decision that was supposed to be made for me has been put off for another 8 weeks.  That is a very good thing for me as it will buy me more time.  Unfortunately, it is also bad at the same time as the stress continues to pile on.  So I guess that means we are ultimately still in this limbo.
 
Keep posting - maybe we can still help each other out.  I wish you the best.
 
Cass

THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 10/8/2009 10:53 PM (GMT -7)   
popping in to say that we are here for you. cass and nw. all the best. jamie. :-)

Learning2fly
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   Posted 10/9/2009 5:45 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm sorry you both didn't get your decisions on Monday. Being prepared for them and then having them delayed is harder to take sometimes than having a decision reached that you don't like. I will keep both of you in my prayers. I hope when these decisions finally are made that they turn out the way you want them to.
 
Major depression; Bipolar Disorder; Fibromyalgia; Spinal Stenosis; right arm and leg nerve compression; cataracts; glaucoma ... that's enough or I'll get more depressed.


NightWish
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   Posted 10/15/2009 1:18 AM (GMT -7)   
Thanks for sharing your story about the tough decision you had to make in your relationship, Cass. I admire you for making the decision that was healthiest for you. Mine is pretty much a decision about whether I should quit school and spend a lot more money and time starting over some place else or save myself the financial burden and stress of repeating classes and just stick it out because I'm halfway through. I'm just in a really emotionally and mentally toxic environment.

I really try to stay upbeat and positive and I know I'll get through this because I had another traumatic experience in my life where I just kept wishing I could go back in time to change things by making different decisions to prevent the situation from occurring, but I did get over it eventually. I think I should probably find a counselor to talk to on campus to get through until winter break at least. By then I might be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel. It's just really draining because I find that I'm always in situations that cause me to wish my life away and look forward to moving on from what I'm doing. I envy the people who move to a new place and realize they made a great decision. But maybe the next place I go will be better.
Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it. -Tori Amos


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 10/16/2009 11:46 AM (GMT -7)   
nw, that sounds like a wise approach. wishing you well. hoping for the best for you. your in my thoughts. keep well. we care. jamie

Aurora60
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   Posted 10/16/2009 4:53 PM (GMT -7)   

To Cass & Nightwish, I am sorry you have not been able to resolve your respective situations yet. I do believe that a positive attitude will help in getting through your difficult times.  I wish you both the very best and hope all will work out for the outcome you are hoping for.  I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. You are both such wonderful people and such good friends to me, I want only to see you both have a smile and for your difficulties to be resolved soon.

Many hugs,

Aurora


NightWish
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   Posted 10/16/2009 11:18 PM (GMT -7)   
Thanks Jamie and Aurora for your wonderful and comforting words. It helps to know there are fans in my cheering section. Aurora, I will be thinking of you on Monday. I know it will all go very well for you.
Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it. -Tori Amos


THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 10/17/2009 3:26 AM (GMT -7)   

all the best aurora. jamie :-)

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