K I want to but i'm scared....

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Balance Seeker
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   Posted 11/6/2009 1:23 PM (GMT -7)   
O.k, I agree about moving on....But also she has feeling in there somewhere... I figure that if I do, she'll get both upset and pissed off..... should I look at this and tell myself it's for the best and that it'll be the last time she is like this with me? I'm worse at getting out of relationships than I am at trying to develop them...LOL

I just know that I'll feel better when I'm single. LOL this is almost funny (which its not) but this feeling of scared anticipation has me laughing at myself..... tongue

serafena
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   Posted 11/6/2009 1:27 PM (GMT -7)   
I always think being honest is the best solution. Tell her you're leaving. Tell her why. She's going to tell you she can change. You need to decide in advance if you think that's likely. Yes, she'll be mad, but that's HER problem, not yours. The only person's emotions you can be responsible for are your own. What do YOU need to be okay?

Best wishes,
serafena
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Balance Seeker
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   Posted 11/6/2009 1:33 PM (GMT -7)   
thaaaaaaaaaaanks
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