I am so sorry, war is an ugly thing. He had to see horrible things or hear things. He loves you and the kids but right now he is trying to protect you all the way he knows the best. And at the same time he is protecting himself. I know it is not easy to understand, he is in the survival mod. Keep the news away form him; don’t watch anything with violence in it. You need to watch and see what sets him off and try no to do it. I know it is hard on you and the kids. Tell the kids the truth that daddy is sick. You also should know that no medication will take a way what he saw and felt. Your love will help him process what he saw but he is changed and will never be the man you married too. Keep strong and God be with you and the family.
I will find a way or make one. –Phillip Sidney 1554-1586
All that I am and all that I shall ever be, I owe to my Angel Mother.
The Bucket List- Have you found joy in your life? Has your life brought joy to others?
Make sure your suffering has meaning…
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