Depressive Weekend

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Babsy
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Date Joined Oct 2009
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   Posted 11/15/2009 1:19 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi guys...well....lately ive been really depressed because i feel alone like my girlfriend has recently been cold towards me and i asked her if something was up and she said yeah but she had t go and i look back on all the times she was happy and i really miss that...im scared shes just goiong to break up with me and im really scared cuz i dont want her to go and i dont want to be alone.....my bike got stolen yesterday and i nearly cried for it..lame right? :-/...and well my recent thing is whats the point of life? why should i do my best, wy should i try and be successful if im just going to lose it all and die in the end? Why are we even born if we are going to die in the end? Lately ive just felt worthless like im not a vital part to anybody im just another kid occupying another seat..And I  myself 2 days ago but i still didnt feel better i feel so out of it and so sad i dont even know what to do anymore :'(

Post Edited By Moderator (getting by) : 11/15/2009 10:16:56 PM (GMT-7)


serafena
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   Posted 11/15/2009 5:40 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Babsy,

Welcome back. I'm sorry you're having trouble right now. these are things that would get anyone down, but if you're struggling with depression, that makes every set back seem worse.

Seek out some help. I don't know how old you are. Are you in school? College? Could you talk to a counselor?

serafena
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Bipolar II

"Bipolar disorder can be a great teacher. It's a challenge, but it can set you up to be able to do almost anything else in your life." - CARRIE FISHER


getting by
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   Posted 11/15/2009 10:41 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Babsy,
 
I am not sure what I want to say here.  You ask why should you do the best you can in life if you are only going to lose it all and die anyway, Why not?  Why not do the best that you can, live, love and try to be happy?  Yes, we are all going to die someday.  And yes bad things happen to good people.  That is life.  And life can be wonderful despite the bad things that happen.  You can be happy, you need to want to be though.
 
I noticed in your post that you were assuming that she was going to break up with you, but you didn't know for sure.  But you turned to sadness and saw the negative side of every thing.  Why be down when you don't know for sure what she was going to say to you?  Why take that time, where you could be happy and enjoying something and assume the worst? 
 
Does she know that you are doing self harm?  Just answer yes or no, because we aren't suppose to talk about it on the forum.  I had to edit a word out of your post because of the rules.  But knowing that could be causing her to distance herself from you.  Maybe she is worried that you are not stable.  Or maybe she realizes that you are depressed and doesn't know how to handle it.
 
Are you going to any counseling right now?  I think you should think about it.  It really does help.  A lot of us go and usually discuss the progress that we have made from it.  How old are you?  If you are a teen, there are some sites that you would be interested in.  There are also sites for older adults too.  Let me know.
 
I sure hope that you feel better and atain some faith in life.  We only go around once, make the best of it.  It can be done.  And you can do it.
 
Hugs, Karen
  Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
 
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies


fisherman47
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Date Joined Nov 2009
Total Posts : 1
   Posted 11/16/2009 10:56 AM (GMT -7)   
hey guys and gals,  can't seem to even get out of bed wish i had someone to talk to, confused                                                                                                                                                                                              

Post Edited (fisherman47) : 11/16/2009 11:23:16 AM (GMT-7)


serafena
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Date Joined May 2007
Total Posts : 3715
   Posted 11/16/2009 2:04 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi fisherman47,

I'm sorry you're in such a bad place. Start a new thread and tell us a little bit about what's going on.

serafena
Serafena
Co-Moderator, Bipolar Forum
Bipolar II

"Bipolar disorder can be a great teacher. It's a challenge, but it can set you up to be able to do almost anything else in your life." - CARRIE FISHER

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