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Hal2586
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Date Joined Dec 2009
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   Posted 12/9/2009 6:29 PM (GMT -7)   
hi everyone.

I'm really up and down with my mood swings. One minute I'll just want to curl up in the dark and try to sleep (which hasn't been coming easily) and the next I'll be ready to just get done with school and push myself through it.

I've been doing really good about not resorting to old habits/ ways I would normally cope with stress and depression but after talking with friends I'm feeling worse and worse. No one seems to understand my situation mad

I recently got the call that the guy I was seeing can't ever talk to me again (it's a complicated situation) but basically I got no closure.
I've been trying to contact him to just talk about all the depression and things I'm going through and also to give him back his things but all with no luck.
I don't feel like I can move on because we've been talking for 3 months or so about starting over in a few months when the situation is better and when we could have the relationship we both have wanted.
I don't know how to handle this situation or what he is thinking, his decision was rash and I know he's struggling with it now. I'm thinking about driving to his place to at least give him his things back...

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   Posted 12/9/2009 8:08 PM (GMT -7)   
It seems to me that he wanted to break contact until you were 18. How long is that? Can't you wait the time out? And just take it one day at a time and trust what he said? Give it a try. One day at a time.
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THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 12/9/2009 9:19 PM (GMT -7)   
karen makes good sense. in time things become more clear. agree, one day at a time. jamie.
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Hal2586
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Date Joined Dec 2009
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   Posted 12/10/2009 4:50 PM (GMT -7)   
that's my strategy so far but it's so difficult if i try to talk to people about it and they just shoot me down.

and our plan was to wait until I was 18 to talk again and date but then he said he "couldn't" ever talk to me again and would resent himself because of it.
he didn't give much of an explanation so I'm having a really hard time with that. And he's also been talking to a friend a bit saying he has to respect my parents before me (what does that matter if after one conversation he never talks to me again?) and hopes that I can forgive him.

Today has been a fairly good day. Really ready to be done with finals.

THE HAPPY TURTLE
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   Posted 12/10/2009 5:15 PM (GMT -7)   
sometimes for a bit you have to take the good with the bad. although with time things do improve and get better. glad you exams are done, i hope you do well. jamie
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

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